I Love You Sl*t

I am an I LOVE YOU SL*T... for those of you who've started getting wierd ideas with the last word of the title of the post, what i meant was, that i love to say i love you... I think this term was coined by robin in reference to ted on the popular show "how i met your mother" and i can so well relate to it...

Basically i am the kind of person who loves to say i love you... I say it to all my friends, family, simply everyone who i don't hate and am not indifferent towards... In fact i sometimes tell people i don't give a shit about, that i love them... mayb to make them feel good, or maybe if they've done somen good for me... 

But that is not the problem... The problem is, when i enter into a relationship, i don't take much time to tell the guy that i love him... MAYBE (sarcasm) the main reason for that is that i mostly date people who i've prolly been friends with for long and maybe i did love them already and hence i started dating them... and this gets me a hell lot of criticism...

Friends of mine temme that i should take some time before i say it. People who i've now broken up with or have been dumped by tell me that it repels them when i say i love you so soon...

But honestly, i just don't see it... why should i have to think so much before telling someone i love them? Why should i fear that it'll repel them? I mean, I'm not criticing them... I'm not saying anything bad or taking up a sensitive issue... And for god's sake, guys i want you to temme this... when a girl says "i love you" does it sound like "let's get married!"???

Love Ke Funde

Finally after a rather long time, m doing a tag.. i was tagged by solitaire on warm fuzzies and she's done it in a very refreshing way...  so i suggest you guys read hers too....

Now this is like the perfect tag for a loveaholic person like me... so here it goes...

1. If your lover betrayed you, what will your reaction be?

A. Well if i really love him, i think i'm gonna try and forget it... Coz i guess everyone is allowed one mistake... But if it happens after that again, then no way he's escaping a serious beating and major humiliation.

2. If you can have a dream come true, what would it be?

A. Honestly i wanna study a lot... so i hope i can do it, like get a really good degree you know... It would mean the world to my mom so yea anything for her...

3. Whose butt would you like to kick?

A. A lot of people at different times... in fact i have kicked someone's ass... 

4. Why do you blog?
A. Well my best friend got me started on it....and then i started using it as a diary sorts of... And now i just enjoy getting comments on watever i write...lol...

5. Will you fall in love with your best friend?
A. i thought i did, you know... but then this one time i imagined that we'd have to make out if we got together and that like totally freaked me out... so yea i guess it's all platonic there...

6. Which is more blessed: loving someone or being loved by someone?
A. Well being loved by someone can be a blessing if you like that person even if its a moderate amout but it can be a nightmare if you're like totally scared of that person's obssesive nature...

7. How long do you intend to wait for someone you love?

A. Depends on who i am in love with... depends whether i am gonna get him... like i really can't expect brad pitt to leave angie for me... so what's the use wasting my time??? now orlando bloom leaving miranda kerr... now that's another story....

8. If the person you secretly like is attached, what will you do?
A. Oki m like a big bitch when it comes to this... i have actually stolen two guys from their girls... m not trying to boast here... but one of the guy's relationship was already half broken so i completely broke it... n the other guy well, we're all allowed to be bitches at some point in life!!!!

9. If you could root for one social cause, what would it be?
A. i really think that underpriviliged children should get proper education, so that their children do not suffer the same fate... 

10. What takes you down the fastest?
A. Bad Marks! God do i wail and wail for hours after...

11. What resurrects you the fastest?
A. Good music... or talking to my boyfriend (if i am serious about him) or my best friend (coz he's like always there... but he's like really busy...so i save him as the third option)

12. What’s your fear?

A. Earlier it used to be heights (but i conquered that.... yay me!!!) but yea i guess losing my parents or my best friend (to whatever) and yea failing in an exam!

13. What kind of person do you think the person who tagged you is?

A. I think sh'es a really good writer.... if you did visit her blog from the link i posted above, i guess you'll see too....

14. Would you rather be single and rich or married and poor?

A. Definitely single and rich man... i can't stay poor... that's worse than being single....

15. What’s the first thing you do when you wake up?
A. Look at my cellphone, check out the time... whether i can afford to sleep a lil bit more...

16. If you fall in love with two people simultaneously who will you pick?
A. i guess then i won't be in love with either.... is it possible to fall in love with two people at once????

17. Would you give all in a relationship?
A. Again, it depends on who the relationship is with...

18. Would you forgive and forget someone no matter how horrible a thing he has done?

A. i forgive....no matter what the mistake is if that person apologizes... but i never forget... it's not that i try to remember everyone's wrongs, it's just natural...

19. Do you prefer being single or in a relationship? 
A. usually i like being commited, but right now i am loving my single status.... couldn't handle another wuss with so much work overload anyway.... (sudden realization... why do i always get sissies???)

20. Tag 6 people. 

A. rajesh, devidas, harini, vivek and the first two people (other than these 4) to comment on this post.....

Durga Puja 2008

chaturthi te nano galo

ashtami te sourav.

ake ake hariye geche

banglar shob gaurob.

aar kichu maa na niye tui

tule ne sudhu mamta ke.

notun kore baachbo mora

bachabo ei bangla ke.

shubho bijoya.

That was my favourite shubho bijoya message ever. 

So durga puja, like i have mentioned like a million times before is my favourite festival, is now over... My heart sank as i saw the pratima go down in the water as all the kakimas burst into the ooloo dhwani... But then i guess all good things must come to an end and if durga ouja took place 365 days in a year then we prolly wouldnt enjoy it as much...

So basically there were a lot of good things and bad things this year around.... 

I'll start with the bad things coz i believe in ending things on a good note...

1) the 11 o'clock time limit...well nobody really enjoyed it... personally i think all those people who complained against it should be barred from puja pandals world over... i mean, you have to take the bad with the good you know...

2) i lost a couple of good friends but then one of them became rather unbearable and i regret losing the other coz of one... as far the unbearable person is concerned, no regrets there...

3) the food stalls this time pretty much sucked... it was tasteless and most of the time too spicy and hot...

4)  the performances this time were so bad that people who start dancing even with the slightest tempo didn't get on their feet...

5) the labourers who got on our truck while going for the bhaashan, uff...we couldn't even dance!!!!

6) i didn't get a prize for the quiz contest i won...

Now for the good...

1) The final night performance by piloo bhattacharya and lajwanti (of rojgere gini fame) got everyone dancing including me despite the fact that i was wearing a short dress...

2) Well 5 days of fun with friends... adda as we call it... and major pnpc...

3) I won a quiz contest!! yippee!! i had good partners but then i knew quite a few questions... so yea!!!!

4) I got to eat chicken rolls every night for dinner... what can be better than that??

5) Loads of new clothes...i had ten new sets of clothes so well that's like heaven for any chick man!

6) And for the first time ever i managed not to hurt my feet even though i wore heels almost everyday, i hurt them by falling on the escalator instead...lol....

So with wishes of aasche bochor aabar hobey we bid goodbye to the most gorgeous woman... maa durga... Hopefully next year around i'll have even better experiences to relate to...

ps: sorry for all the bengali used in the post, can't really go into translations.... the feeling gets lost....